work would be just fine if it were not for the people.

I’ve been working in this place for like a year. For the first six months, things were fine – people were friendly, cordial and co operative. We had even managed to become ‘friends’. Then the bitching started. Its difficult to imagine how people can badmouth you – and people whom you considered to be your friends. And what are the stakes? One step up? One increment ? A little closer to the top management? At the risk of sounding clichéd and unbelievably moralistic, I don’t really appreciate backbiting and it disgusts me to think that people whom I considered my friends indulge in this. SN bitched about ST to me and vice versa ( I never paid much attention. oh why didn’t i?). Now SN and ST have traded stories (behind my back . why am I surprised?), and are collaborating against me. Not that it matters anyway, because people themselves fall in the graves they dig for others. Not one for ambitious pseudo relationships, I see I have to cultivate just that.

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Collinpur and Kurma Dera beaches

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